What are elements of the appearance, anyway? In dating they are different than in consulting. For her it is different than for you. If she wants to be competitive and have a 9/10, 10/10 appearance, she probably wants to be cognizant of every element of appearance, and excelt at presenting each.
(For you, the male, appearance is also important but in a different way. For your own appearance see the description of appearance for consulting.)
What did one wall say to the other wall?
I’ll meet you at the corner.
what did two oceans say to each other?
nothing, they just waved
Why don’t mountains get cold in winter?
They wear snowcaps.
What did the big flower say to the little flower?
Hi, bud.
Well, there you have it - now the next generation will think that whatever a computer says, is how people should romantically talk to each other. News flash: computers don't have to procreate. They have other, politically motivated goals.
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