Piousbox

What are elements of the appearance, anyway? In dating they are different than in consulting. For her it is different than for you. If she wants to be competitive and have a 9/10, 10/10 appearance, she probably wants to be cognizant of every element of appearance, and excelt at presenting each.

(For you, the male, appearance is also important but in a different way. For your own appearance see the description of appearance for consulting.)

For her, the elements are: the body, the face, the attitude, the dress. (I understand this is extremely sexist.) Why mention? The way you evaluate her, you want to arrive at a rating, and keep it separate from how you feel, so as to not be distracted by the irrationality of your own thought process later on. How you feel upon first contact will change, on subsequent contact. Let's keep things straight hten, and keep the goal in sight. If you see a 9/10 woman recognize her as such, and do not lie to yourself. (This specifically pertains to young people, who are prone to lying to themselves.)

Dress is important. Between undressed, dressed plainly, and dressed to kill lies a world of difference. A wise woman will recognize that and will dress to kill. (A smart man will recognize it also, and will dress to kill as well.)